Dramas about rape, sexual abuse get ratings: Ali Abbas

KARACHI: While TV actor Ali Abbas may not be a popular face, he has managed to hold his own in the industry, courtesy his frankness and no-nonsense approach towards important subjects. With the #MeToo movement in full swing, the Mera Khuda Jane star has joined the likes of bigwigs Osman Khalid Butt and Adnan Siddiqui and shared his two cents on victims of sexual harassment, nepotism in Pakistani entertainment and what defines stardom.

Talking to The Express Tribune, the son of TV personality Waseem Abbas revealed it’s important to believe the survivors of sexual misconduct, most importantly those who have mustered up the courage to share their stories. 

The Express Tribune (ET): There has been a lot of talk about the #MeToo movement in Pakistan. What is your take on the subject?

Ali Abbas (AA): There is no doubt about the fact that it is imperative to believe the victims. We have to extend our support to the brave women who are coming out with their experiences. We can’t shame victims into silence and we can’t fault them when we begin talking about it because it’s a very traumatic event that has happened to them. Another very important change that this movement has done across the world is that it has helped in curbing the culture of silence. Now, if a person in power thinks that he can harass or exploit a woman and get away with it, he will have to think twice before even trying it.

ET: You say you have never used your father’s name to get ahead in the industry. Does that mean you are strongly against nepotism?

AA: There’s a whole culture of promoting not just your own family but a certain set of blue-eyed boys in our industry which I’m not a fan of. This is a huge obstacle in the growth of our industry because when you focus on the ‘chosen ones’, the doors are closed for those who are more talented and deserving. Hence, we don’t get to see actors who are different. I feel it’s a great loss not just for today but also for the times to come.

My father didn’t want me to be an actor. I struggled on my own and against his will. To this day, I haven’t gotten a job based on who my father is or who my grandfather was. I have always been approached for roles based on what I have been able to do on-screen. A big proof of that is not a lot of people even make the connection when they see me. They look at me as ‘Hey, that’s the guy who played Wahaj in that drama!’ And, that’s what makes me proud of my struggle and who I am today.

ET: What do you think defines stardom? Do you want to be Shah Rukh Khan or Daniel Day Lewis?
AA: I’m more like Ayushman Khurrana or maybe Nawazuddin Siddiqui (laughs). Look, I’m an ordinary looking person. I won’t be considered a beautiful boy like Mikaal Zulfiqaar or Ahsan Khan. I’ll always look how I look. So I have not tried to be someone I’m not. I’ve been in this business for six years now and I’ve only sold myself for my talent. I know my work, I love what I do and I know I’m good at it. The truth that I believe in is that a lot of things fade with time and people change flavours quickly, as to who their favourite hero is. But, what stays the same is what people feel about an actor’s work.

ET: You seem to be the opposite of the characters you play on-screen? Is this true?
AA: I am nothing like the guys I play on-screen. At the end of the day, I’m playing a role; I’m not being myself in the particular character I delve into. But, I’ll tell you what. Contrary to what critics believe, we don’t decide content. The audience decides it. We just give them what they want. When the girl gets hit, it brings the ratings. When there is an angle of rape in the drama or any kind of sexual abuse, it gets rating. So everyone jumps on the bandwagon because they want to make what the audience wants to see.

The educated class that hates on our dramas isn’t tuning in at all. For them, the only TV hero they know is Fawad Khan, which is obviously fine but they are simply critiquing our dramas without even watching them.
AA: I loved Ranbir Kapoor in Tamasha and Rockstar. I would also love to play something like Saif in Omkara. In Hollywood, I am extremely fond of Ryan Gosling’s work.

ThE Express Tribune

It takes a lot of guts to stand up against harassment: Amna Ilyas

LAHORE-Her choice of films is few and far between, yet, she has successfully managed to earn the tag of a versatile actress. With each role carefully picked, model-turned-actor Amna Ilyas has become favourite in the ‘unconventional’ bracket. She has time and again challenged herself and emerged as a winner.

In a brief encounter with The Nation, Amna talks about her career and success. Following are the excerpts.

Tell us something about your role in upcoming film ‘Baaji’? How well did you connect to the role in the film?

My role in Baaji is very interesting and challenging. It has two aspects, which have given me a great margin to perform. I don’t want to reveal much right now but there is a lot of connection between my life and the role.

How much do you get affected by the character you play?

When I am shooting nonstop for days, then I tend to live the character I’m playing. So, at times I start thinking like the character as well which bothers my family the most.

From modeling to the big screen, how was the transition? Were there any awkward moments?

The transition was very gradual. I was offered my first movie Good Morning Karachi at a very early stage of my career. I acted in dramas and then came back to the big screen. I would not say it was awkward, modeling involves a lot of expressions but acting is obviously a step ahead. So, I have learned a lot from my co-actors and directors.

You’re amongst the commercially viable actresses today. What are the sacrifices that go behind the glamour?

We lose out privacy and the right of living the way we want to. People comment on every little thing that we do and we have to live with that, a huge sacrifice of becoming a public figure I suppose.

With actors now looking at making a career in the west, do you aspire to explore international cinema?

An actor does not have limits or boundaries. I would love to explore different cinemas be that in Hollywood, Bollywood or any other part of the world.

#MeToo movement is a hot debate currently in B-town. What’s your take on it?

I have been very vocal about it since the first day. It takes a lot of guts for women especially in our male-dominated society to stand up against any harassment or share any such experience because it always backfires and somehow the victim ends up being a joke in the society.

So, what are the essentials to survive in showbiz?

Focus on your work keep yourself fit and in this new era let the world know that you are still hot by posting your selfies (last one is a joke).

Is it difficult to balance a relationship with your career especially in showbiz?

I think if two people are really in love and really want to be with each other, than everything can be managed.

The Nation 

 

TV personality Mani slammed for poking fun at #MeToo movement

In the wake of #MeToo, many have come forward with their ordeals of sexual harassment and misconduct. As the movement picks up in Hollywood and Bollywood, it’s still yet to gain momentum in Pakistan.

While some celebs have supported #MeToo with strong words, others have failed to understand the narrative and everything the campaign stands for. One such celebrity is Mani.

Taking to Instagram, the 42-year-old TV host shared a picture of Tarana Burke – the founder of Me Too movement. The text inscribed on the picture was, “This is Tarana Burke, the founder of Me Too movement.”

The next line inscribed on the very picture was so troublesome that it resulted in the host being called out by many on social media platform. The text read, “Don’t know who touched her and why?”

A local journalist, Manaal Fahim Khan, tweeted, “Salman Sheikh, aka Mani, just shared this on Instagram. The crazy, raging, man-hating feminist in me has no words. Congratulations Mani on leaving me, and so many others, speechless.”

A few Instagram users commented on Mani’s post.

“What a disgusting man you are to joke about sexual harassment. You have two sons who will turn out to be certified douchebags high on toxic masculinity with this shitty mindset you are raising them. Shame!” wrote one user.

Another one stated, “I’m sorry but you’re the dumbest, most cruel person ever.”

“This is pretty damn repulsive. How disconnected are you and your wife (who recently made some shocking revelations about their relationship on an interview with Samina Peerzada) from this world?! Seriously, one has to be a complete moron, that to at a time like this to make light of such serious matters,” another one slammed Mani’s thoughts on the movement.

“Tarana Burke will leave behind a legacy, a movement that brought down the most powerful men in Hollywood. While men like you can’t seem to get their heads out of their a**** to see that we are in 2018. There is no room for people who think like you in this world anymore!”

“If you think it was funny, it definitely is not! It is cheap and downright disgusting and so are you for sharing this!” wrote another follower.

Another one commented, “What a shame. What a shame. Hira Mani, you were singing praises of him in the talk show and it was really nice seeing someone openly show love and support for their husband but this is down right disgusting. Mani, your humour (if it is) or thinking is cheap and disgusting. SHAME ON YOU. Please raise your sons better. And be thankful this didn’t happen to women around you.”

Dear Mani, we understand that the awakening can be rude. It might be difficult to understand the grandeur and magnitude of a movement like this. But the least you can do is not ridicule people associated with it.

As someone who has been in this industry for several years now, you happen to have a certain fan following. They surely hope for a better narrative.

The Express Tribune

‘Ali Zafar harassed me on more than two occasions’: Meesha Shafi responds to defamation charges

Musician and actor Meesha Shafi on Thursday filed her response to a defamation case filed against her by fellow artist Ali Zafar in a Lahore sessions court.

In her reply to the court, Shafi has stated that Zafar had harassed her on more than two occasions.

“Ali Zafar harassed [me] at a private studio and family functions,” she said in the response submitted through her counsels Mohammad Saqib Jilani and Advocate Tasawwur.

She stated that she had been “compelled” to take action against Zafar because of the harassment incidents, adding that Zafar had also harassed several other female artists aside from her.

“I will also provide evidence [of the allegations] when the court asks for it,” Shafi said.

Denying all defamation charges levelled against her by Zafar, she said Zafar “is trying to act innocent before the court”.

She urged the court to dismiss the defamation suit filed against her by Zafar.

After receiving the reply, the court summoned the lawyers for both artists to present their arguments at the next hearing, scheduled for November 5.

In a statement on Twitter on April 19, Shafi had written: “I have been subjected, on more than one occasion, to sexual harassment of a physical nature at the hands of a colleague from my industry: Ali Zafar […] It has been an extremely traumatic experience for me and my family […] I feel betrayed by his behaviour and attitude and I know that I’m not alone.”

Following Shafi’s allegations, several women had come forward on Twitter to also accuse Zafar of harassment.

Shortly after, Zafar denied the allegations in a statement and sent a legal notice to Shafi, demanding that Shafi delete the tweet accusing him of harassment and issue an apology on Twitter.

Zafar then filed a defamation case against Shafi for damages worth Rs1 billion in June. The court, in its last hearing in September, had given Shafi the “last opportunity” to submit a reply in the case.

In an earlier hearing, the sessions court had restrained her from “making any derogatory remarks” against Zafar “in any manner on print or electronic or social media”.

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I conduct myself with dignity and don’t abuse my privilege: Osman Khalid Butt

As #MeToo gains momentum globally, it has reached Pakistan with full force. Renowned personalities such as social media influencer Junaid Akram and Edhi Foundation Chairman Faisal Edhi recently came under fire by several women for sexual misconduct.

However, while this just might be the opening of a Pandora’s Box, Osman Khalid Butt reveals why he won’t be accused of harassment by any woman.

The Baaghi star is gearing up for an upcoming multi-starrer project Baaji, directed by Saqib Malik, which also includes big names such as Meera, Ali Kazmi and model Amna Ilyas.

Butt took to Instagram to write a heartfelt note for Ilyas on her birthday. He wrote, “Happy birthday, you. I am so grateful you were my Neha in Baaji – what a roller-coaster it’s been, eh? Here’s to all the backstage laughs and shenanigans, the intensity and dedication with which you portrayed your character, to you practically playing my shrink when I’d forget to detach from my role. Here’s to the beautiful friendship formed along the way.”

“Thank you for letting me into your life. To all the happiness and success you so richly deserve, a toast,” added the Balu Mahi star.

On the aforementioned post, a user commented, “Please be careful because after some time she would be accusing you of harassment because #MeToo.”

To this, Butt responded, “No she won’t because I conduct myself with dignity even among friends and don’t abuse my privilege. Harassment allegations are not this frivolous, nor #MeToo a movement to be taken lightly. If you don’t respect the women speaking out about the trauma they’ve endured, the least you can do is not reduce it to a reductive, inane comment.”

He continued, “Reading utter tone-deaf comments/statements regarding the #MeToo movement and feminism in general. Gender sensitivity training should be mandatory across all fields.”

Reading utter tone-deaf comments/statements regarding the #MeToo movement & feminism in general. Gender sensitivity training should be mandatory across all fields.

The Express Tribune