Dramas about rape, sexual abuse get ratings: Ali Abbas

KARACHI: While TV actor Ali Abbas may not be a popular face, he has managed to hold his own in the industry, courtesy his frankness and no-nonsense approach towards important subjects. With the #MeToo movement in full swing, the Mera Khuda Jane star has joined the likes of bigwigs Osman Khalid Butt and Adnan Siddiqui and shared his two cents on victims of sexual harassment, nepotism in Pakistani entertainment and what defines stardom.

Talking to The Express Tribune, the son of TV personality Waseem Abbas revealed it’s important to believe the survivors of sexual misconduct, most importantly those who have mustered up the courage to share their stories. 

The Express Tribune (ET): There has been a lot of talk about the #MeToo movement in Pakistan. What is your take on the subject?

Ali Abbas (AA): There is no doubt about the fact that it is imperative to believe the victims. We have to extend our support to the brave women who are coming out with their experiences. We can’t shame victims into silence and we can’t fault them when we begin talking about it because it’s a very traumatic event that has happened to them. Another very important change that this movement has done across the world is that it has helped in curbing the culture of silence. Now, if a person in power thinks that he can harass or exploit a woman and get away with it, he will have to think twice before even trying it.

ET: You say you have never used your father’s name to get ahead in the industry. Does that mean you are strongly against nepotism?

AA: There’s a whole culture of promoting not just your own family but a certain set of blue-eyed boys in our industry which I’m not a fan of. This is a huge obstacle in the growth of our industry because when you focus on the ‘chosen ones’, the doors are closed for those who are more talented and deserving. Hence, we don’t get to see actors who are different. I feel it’s a great loss not just for today but also for the times to come.

My father didn’t want me to be an actor. I struggled on my own and against his will. To this day, I haven’t gotten a job based on who my father is or who my grandfather was. I have always been approached for roles based on what I have been able to do on-screen. A big proof of that is not a lot of people even make the connection when they see me. They look at me as ‘Hey, that’s the guy who played Wahaj in that drama!’ And, that’s what makes me proud of my struggle and who I am today.

ET: What do you think defines stardom? Do you want to be Shah Rukh Khan or Daniel Day Lewis?
AA: I’m more like Ayushman Khurrana or maybe Nawazuddin Siddiqui (laughs). Look, I’m an ordinary looking person. I won’t be considered a beautiful boy like Mikaal Zulfiqaar or Ahsan Khan. I’ll always look how I look. So I have not tried to be someone I’m not. I’ve been in this business for six years now and I’ve only sold myself for my talent. I know my work, I love what I do and I know I’m good at it. The truth that I believe in is that a lot of things fade with time and people change flavours quickly, as to who their favourite hero is. But, what stays the same is what people feel about an actor’s work.

ET: You seem to be the opposite of the characters you play on-screen? Is this true?
AA: I am nothing like the guys I play on-screen. At the end of the day, I’m playing a role; I’m not being myself in the particular character I delve into. But, I’ll tell you what. Contrary to what critics believe, we don’t decide content. The audience decides it. We just give them what they want. When the girl gets hit, it brings the ratings. When there is an angle of rape in the drama or any kind of sexual abuse, it gets rating. So everyone jumps on the bandwagon because they want to make what the audience wants to see.

The educated class that hates on our dramas isn’t tuning in at all. For them, the only TV hero they know is Fawad Khan, which is obviously fine but they are simply critiquing our dramas without even watching them.
AA: I loved Ranbir Kapoor in Tamasha and Rockstar. I would also love to play something like Saif in Omkara. In Hollywood, I am extremely fond of Ryan Gosling’s work.

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Multiple women accuse Junaid Akram of sexual harassment

KARACHI: Amid the #MeToo movement gaining momentum worldwide, numerous women have come forward to accuse social media influencer Junaid Akram of sexual harassment. For the sake of the victims’ protection, The Express Tribune has reported the cases with complete anonymity.

One of the first accusers came to know of the social media celebrity in an article that appeared in a local publication on August 24, 2014. The supposed incident occurred a few days later. In her statement, the alleged victim said, “I followed him on social media and would occasionally comment on his posts. Once, he messaged me saying that I shouldn’t comment on his posts which may carry double meaning as he has some ‘creeps’ added as well. I then avoided commenting.”

She mentioned that Akram reportedly asked her for her WhatsApp number and they occasionally spoke on the messaging application. Their conversations were supposedly casual until one day Akram apparently asked to see her. She wrote, “Out of nowhere, he said, ‘I want to see you’, to which I replied, ‘Yes sure, whenever you are in the country’, as he was not in Pakistan at the time. He then said, ‘No, I want to see you now, if you know what I mean’.” She didn’t know what to say to him and blocked him instead.

Afraid of speaking up against Akram in public, another girl created a fake profile of herself to report her harassment incident. She wrote, “I’m scared to come out in public from my real profile because he has threatened me multiple times.” The girl added that he has misbehaved with her on multiple occasions and forced himself on her. “He also hides that he has a wife and plays it safe as such conversations only happen on Snapchat. I later found out about her who is a divorcee. He is the step-father to her two children,” she continued.

According to her, everything between them was consensual but he lied about his marital status. She claimed, “He cheated on his wife and kept me in the dark.”

Another girl claimed that Akram didn’t harass her but lied about his marital status. She said that after going on a few dates, he messaged her saying, “I’m really sorry to cause you all this trouble. You didn’t deserve this in the first place. I was beginning to like you a lot but that was just going to hurt us both eventually. I hope, one day, you can understand where I came from. If you don’t forgive me, that’s fine too. I deserve it.”

The fourth accuser shared that Akram had come to her university to speak on mental health where he told his story about child abuse. She said, “I reached out to him on Messenger thinking he’s someone I can relate to. He started sharing details about his abuse and how it affected him. He asked me to video call him.” She revealed that she’s someone who’s not comfortable with phone calls, and more so, with video calls. “He insisted and coaxed me into telling my own story and how my cousin molested me. He was very attentive and kind. He asked me where I lived and my personal details, and in the moment, I answered. We didn’t talk for three months after that.”

Later, her university was to hold another event and invite him so she messaged him again. “He started flirting with me and sending me inappropriate messages. Since I wanted to invite him I didn’t refuse and he asked me to ‘strip’ on video call. I resisted and he blackmailed me that he would inform my family so I removed my shirt. He insisted me to remove more of my clothing but then my sister entered the room and saw me crying,” the alleged victim stated.

She then told her sister about everything who asked her to call Akram again. Her sister threatened to expose him on social media. However, Akram reportedly informed her that he had nude clips of the girl. After the incident, she deleted all her conversations with Akram and has not been in touch with him since.

Talking to the publication, Akram denied all claims of sexual harassment against him. He said, “My marital status is public information. I have spoken about it in my Facebook videos and it’s also been mentioned in my YouTube video dated to March 2017.”

Akram added that he has not harassed anyone and all such claims are false. He continued, “I am currently consulting my legal team to take action within the parameters of the law, against all those who have made or furthered these allegations.”

The Express Tribune