Woman threatens to kill twin daughters, demands alimony

BY: Yusra Salim

KARACHI: If you were driving on Khayaban-e-Shamsheer on Sunday afternoon, you might have come across a woman who tried to push her twin daughters on the main road. She was protesting outside her ex-husband’s house, demanding he pay her alimony so she can bring up her children.

Aziz Gul, 46, seemed to have given up on life when she resorted to such tactics. When The Express Tribune tracked her down later in the day, she narrated her ordeal.

Gul and her ex-husband, Faisal Haq, signed their marriage documents on May 28, 2011, after a four-year relationship. Both of them were marrying for the second time. “I am his second wife and our marriage was kept secret from his first wife,” she claimed as she showed the marriage certificate.

The couple were living a normal life at an apartment, Shadman Residence in Clifton Block 2, which he had bought for her. But when his first wife found out, trouble began. Gul claimed that Haq divorced her with the help of some influential people. According to her, the divorce letter he submitted at the union council office was fake. It was rejected by the officer as Haq had failed to attach the marriage certificate.

Now, she demands proper divorce from him after fulfilling the necessary court requirements. Gul claimed that Haq sold their Shadman apartment for Rs18.6 million and has kept all the money with him. “My husband stole the legal papers of my house and the cars from my residence,” she claimed, adding that she has CCTV footage to support her claims.

Living with two twin daughters is not easy and one needs money to live, she cried. “Last night, I tried to kill my daughters by giving them sleeping pills with milk so that they won’t ask for food the next morning but my maid saved them,” she admitted.

For now, Gul has three demands from her husband. “One is to give me back my property and the documents for her two cars,” she said, adding that she is living at a house on Khayaban-e-Saadi that belongs to Haq. She also demanded money to raise her daughters and a proper divorce so she can start a new life.

“It is my wish to live in Murree,” she said. “I will sell all my property and will move to a small house in Murree with my daughters and will live far away from these greedy people of Karachi.” She refused to hand over her daughters to their father, claiming that his first wife was abusive towards them.

Husband retorts

For his part, Haq called his ex-wife unstable and a drug addict. There are two cases going on in the Sindh High Court but she doesn’t show up for the proceedings, he told The Express Tribune. “I will take care of my daughters and will take their custody,” he said.

According to him, the house that Gul is currently living in and the cars she uses belong to him. “My lawyers are working on this as I divorced this lady on September 26, 2014,” he claimed. Haq has also sought a restraining order against Gul, claiming that she threatens him at his office. The SHC stay order states that the couple were divorced last year.

Meanwhile, Gul’s son from her first marriage, Usman Mansoor, admitted that she has some psychological issues and has threatened people before. “She is not normal and thinks we are her enemies,” he added.

On Monday, Gul filed a complaint with the Citizens-Police Liaison Committee (CPLC) in which she stated that her husband has failed to provide her money and basic facilities. “We have heard her version and are expected to have a meeting with Faisal Haq by tonight or tomorrow morning to get the version of the other party,” CPLC chief Ahmed Chinoy told The Express Tribune.

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Political change skips Fata’s women, for now

By Sumaira Khan

Tribal areas have no female repres­entati­ves in parlia­ment.

ISLAMABAD: For women of a strictly patriarchal and rigidly homosocial region, their only voice are their male counterparts.

The Federally Administered Tribal Areas (Fata) is the only region of Pakistan that has no female representation in the National Assembly, or the Senate. In addition, the issue appears to be looming nowhere on the horizon.

Looking up to PPP

Giving qualified and eligible women of Fata proper representation in Parliament has been our longstanding issue, said ruling Pakistan Peoples Party (PPP) sympathiser, and a lawmaker from Fata, Akhundzada Chitan.

Chitan, who has been raising his voice for the rights of women of Fata, said he has talked to the party leadership several times and drawn their attention towards this important issue.

The PPP government recently amended the Frontier Crimes Regulation (FCR) and extended the Political Parties Order 2002 to Fata, opening the region to political expression.

“It was almost impossible for us to even think about changes in the FCR but the PPP made it possible; that’s why the women of Fata are looking towards the PPP leadership to give them their basic rights, especially when there are no more political sanctions in Fata,” Chitan said.

In Pakhtun society, women, by virtue of strict gender segregation, are the only ones aware of women’s needs, especially at home, he said.

They face a host of challenges – reproductive health, financial stability, and ancient, discriminatory customs – and therefore a Pakhtun woman parliamentarian would help in formulating national policies regarding women-specific issues, Chitan added.

Who’s responsible?

Female parliamentarians shifted the onus of political uplift of Fata’s women to their male counterparts.

PPP lawmaker Yasmin Rehman called for equal rights for Fata’s women but urged the Pakhtun men to ‘help their women contribute towards strengthening of institutions’.

Only education can improve the lot of women, Rehman said, adding that she will discuss this particular issue in the meetings of women parliamentary caucus.

Pakistan Muslim League-Nawaz’s (PML-N) lawmaker Anusha Rehman said granting political representation to Fata’s women should be ‘the prime task’ of Fata’s male parliamentarians.

She suggested they draft a private members’ bill, instead of delivering rhetoric on points of orders.

The region’s human rights representative blamed the ‘establishment’ for Fata’s general backwardness.

“In Fata, the real power rests with the army which, professionally, has a security-oriented approach in dealing with things, rather than a welfare-oriented one,” said chairperson of the Khyber-Pakhtunkhwa chapter of Human Rights Commission of Pakistan, Sher Mohammad Khan.

Social change is a continuous process and sooner than later, those in power would have to grant rights to the tribal people guaranteed in the Constitution, Khan added.

Women to herald change

Women need to be empowered and no one but themselves should bring about this change by raising their voice against violation of their rights, said educationist Dr Mairaj Humayon.

We are celebrating the recently-passed landmark bills upholding women’s rights, but when will such celebrations take place for Fata’s women, said filmmaker and women rights activist Samar Minallah.

“If policy makers are serious about empowering them, they will have to think of some practical steps to bring about a change from within,” she said.

Minallah insisted that women have to be part of the decision-making process.

“There are effective decision-makers concealed behind the chadors; they can only emerge if they are given a real chance,” she added.